The Power of Networking Events for Introverts: Building Connections at Your Own Pace


Introverts often find themselves in a conundrum when it comes to networking events. The very idea of entering a room full of strangers, striking up conversations, and making lasting connections can be intimidating for those who thrive in quieter, more singular settings. However, networking events can be immensely beneficial for introverts when approached strategically. Here, Laurel, founder of Laurel Leaf Networking, explores how networking events can work in favour of introverts and offer them a valuable platform for personal and professional growth.

  1. Quality Over Quantity:

Introverts tend to excel in one-on-one or small group interactions, and networking events offer an opportunity to make meaningful connections. Instead of focusing on collecting a large number of business cards, introverts can focus on forming deeper, more authentic relationships with select individuals.

  1. Preparation is Key:

Introverts often thrive when they have a clear plan. Before attending a networking event, take time to research the event and its attendees. Identify people you’d like to meet and topics you’d like to discuss. This preparation can boost your confidence and make conversations feel less intimidating.

  1. Thoughtful Listening:

Introverts are often great listeners, a valuable skill in networking. Rather than dominating conversations, introverts can use their listening skills to understand others’ needs, interests and if they can be of benefit to their business. This not only makes for more genuine connections but also allows introverts to provide valuable insights and solutions on a more personal level.

  1. Meaningful Follow-Up:

Introverts may not be the most outgoing individuals in a room, but they can shine in follow-up activities. After a networking event, take the time to send personalized follow-up emails or messages to the people you connected with. This demonstrates your commitment to building a relationship and can lead to fruitful collaborations. This is also true of all attendees.

  1. Utilise Online Networking:

Not all networking has to happen in person. Introverts can leverage online platforms, such as the Laurel Leaf Facebook groups to reach fellow professionals in what could be a more comfortable environment. Online connections can often transition into valuable real-world relationships and business. There are 6 Laurel Leaf Facebook groups with an overall membership of 40k+ members so a wonderful opportunity to reach potential customers for services or products.

  1. Join Smaller Networking Groups:

Instead of attending massive, overwhelming events, introverts can seek out smaller, more intimate networking groups or that cater to their interests. These settings may be less intimidating and offer a more relaxed atmosphere for networking.

  1. Elevate Your Niche Expertise:

Introverts often excel in specialised areas where deep knowledge and expertise are valued. Use networking events as an opportunity to showcase your niche skills and position yourself as a go-to resource in your field. People are drawn to experts, and this can make networking more organic and enjoyable.

  1. Practice and Patience:

Networking is a skill that can be developed over time. Introverts may not feel immediate comfort in networking situations, but with practice and patience, they can become more at ease and effective. Gradually, the process can become less intimidating and more enjoyable. Networking is about building trust and it takes time, just as it does with personal relationships. The more you talk to people, the more you are likely to build trust which can lead to collaborations, support and mutual referrals.


Networking events can be a valuable tool for personal and professional growth, even for introverts. By focusing on the quality of connections, thoughtful preparation, and leveraging their unique strengths, introverts can turn networking events into a platform for building meaningful collaborations and expanding their networking circles. With practice and a strategic approach, introverts can thrive in the world of networking, one meaningful connection at a time.


Laurel Alper is the Founder of Laurel Leaf Networking

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